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how to handle a mean twin thats a bully
okay, so, back before PH closed, i had this friend, lets say her name was.... gloria, and i had a twin named... tori. and tori was nice at first, but that nice thing went downhill and she started making me wear whatever she was wearing. and by this point, i didn't think anything about it. I didnt even think it was mean.
anyway, one day my friend gloria had a cafe, and she had the workers wear the color red. then, my friend tori came on, and she started messaging me. and i ignored her because by now she and gloria had already fought several times before, and I thought that if i ignored her, she would get off PH. but no, she went ahead and flew to me without asking, and when she saw what my fairy was wearing, she kept telling me to change. and then gloria was like and i changed my shirt into the same thing she was wearing, thinking that was enough and she would be happy enough with that. but instead, she repeats what she said before, for me to change. so, i changed my skirt, and left the belt on, because it was red. but tori made me take it off, and at that point i no longer had red on. and this made gloria mad, and she started yelling at tori, saying something about how i didn't have to change because what i was wearing was just fine, and how tori didn't have to be so bossy all the time and all. then, tori left without saying anything and gloria just floated there, also saying nothing. then i flew up to her, and then she started shouting at me because i didnt get rid of her like i said i would. anyway, when PH closed, we weren't friends and i deleted tori off of my friends list, but i still feel guilty. and if PH comes back, i have no idea what im going to say to gloria. can someone tell me what i should have done? P.S.: everyones names have been changed to protect their identities. P.P.S.: Mods, if this is flaming, i apoligize. |
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You didn't really do anything wrong, but it probably wasn't the best move to ignore Tori. Maybe Tori got upset with Gloria because she didn't want to share you with anyone else. Gloria stood up for you, and that's what a true friend does.
If PH comes back, the best thing to do would be to thank Gloria and tell her she's a true friend. |
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I think you did everything well, except for maybe deleting Tori, unless of course, you were planning to add her back later and just give it a break for a while. But don't worry about it, everyone makes mistakes. I don't think Tori had bad intentions, she just may have been to caught up in the whole twinning thing to realize what she was doing may have been a little overboard and annoying. As for Gloria, she encouraged you to be yourself and be unique, and that's what true friends do. I would thank her for encouraging you to be yourself
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well in truth i think YOU should have told Tori yourself that you were playing with Gloria right now and that when you were done you would change and if anything tell her real twins don't dress the same normally because even twins are different people and not all twins even look the same twins are just people that are born from the same mom and on the same day and not even on the same day i had a friend born before midnight the other born sometime after midnight so they didn't even share the same bday just the same face.
Besides a real friend wouldn't be mad at you for playing with someone else and not dressing like them so maybe just tell them if the game opens up again that things will be different and you will not take being bossed around by either of them. |
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